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Condom machines in the bathroom

  • sex ed to start from age 5 - not to say show them a porn movie, but start introducing notions
  • doesn't make kids have more sex
  • makes them more likely to use condoms when they do
  • by taking opportunities to address sexuality out of the public sphere it puts the onus on parents to guide their children's sex decision making
  • often children aren't even thinking sex when we think they are thinking sex - Sexpo billboard - often our reactions put things in their minds
  • SOLUTION FROM LISTENER: teach kids how to be parents before you teach them about sex
  • the consequences of sex is not pregnancy it is pleasure, fear tactics don't work
  • don't just talk to children about sex, talk about relationships, love, age-appropriate sex (underage sex could land you in jail), guidance about how loving should happen, HIV education
  • no guilt tripping, no coercion
  • if they do something 'wrong' sexually, work through it with them so that they know how to do it better, no punishment 
  • (! recognise that a mistake your kids make is a mistake you, the parent or adult, made)
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