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Homosexuality is not a choice for Mineart

My homosexuality on the other hand, is NOT A CHOICE. I didn't pick it. I wouldn't change it if I could, any more than any black person would deliberately go out and change the color of their skin. It's a part of me. But I certainly didn't choose it, any more than the color of my hair, my height, or any other part of me.

I've written this a billion times, and I'm writing it again. What makes me gay isn't my behavior, it's my feelings. Homosexuality isn't about behavior, it's about who you fall in love with and are attracted to. Choice has nothing to do with it.

Of course I could choose to marry a man and have a monogamous relationship with him for the rest of my life. But that wouldn't make me heterosexual. That would make me a gay woman in a relationship with a man. A miserable relationship that I hated, he hated, and any children we had hated. It would be a destructive mess to everyone concerned. Want proof of that? If you're heterosexu…

Never hire a woman, you become part of her problem solution tools

A man phones to 702 who thinks it's totally unfair that when you hire a woman, you, in effect, hire her family. Why must he provide after-school care or a creche? Why must he put up with her taking days off to care for sick children, or sick relatives? It's not his problem. He hired her to do the work and if she doesn't do the work why can't he fire her.

What amazes me is that women don't say, "Fuck this for a loop." and stop having children, stop taking the children after a divorce, why don't they let the men have the children, sterilize themselves and see how the fuckers like that.