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Hater-Christians and their dismissal of gay issues

@Miranda. So what are saying is that I must 'get a more important cause' that you will determine because you haven't spoken out (like a true complicit hater-Christian), the very people I am pleading with you to change the minds of? 

I would hold the broader community responsible for the failure of Ubuntu to prevent the murder of homosexuals of I were Black. But if I say that - will I be fired? Called a racist? Silenced with a dismissive wave of a hand. No. You've done that before. To me. Irony lives here. 

If you draw a parallel with apartheid, I would be the White person pleading among my 'Friends' for my friends to recognize that Black people have human rights, that they should have the same rights as me. 

Just like that, I am asking you to plead among your friends for them not to discriminate against homosexuals and to stop the human rights abuses against homosexuals. You haven't done that, so really, you are much like the hater-White apartheid perpetrator, justifying what he is doing by saying "Blacks will never come right, White people's minds can't be changed." So, by your logic all Whites are racist. So you are calling me a racist. I am not demonizing Christians, I am calling them out on their bullshit. They have incited a genocide. Lesbian women are being tortured and dismembered in our country. Have you tried to stop that?

I have hope, I believe in a change of heart and mind. If anywhere, that change can happen among a community whose leader stands for Love. Do you stand with your leader? Will you make a status calling your Christian friends to Love? 'Educate' them.


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